Why then did these two persons post articles which could not be properly substantiated? I am not here to discuss these two cases but I want to emphasize several important points that we should take note of when we say or write about something or someone.
First, some people simply believe the rumours they hear. The Bible says: “The simple believe anything but the prudent gives thought to his steps” (Prov 14:15). In fact, the Bible wisely counsels us that “In a lawsuit, the first to speak seems right until someone comes forward and cross-examines” (Prov 18:17). Thus, if the rumours you hear are without reliable grounds, do not come to a conclusion, much less act upon unfounded conclusions. This means that you avoid getting angry or do anything that will bring about serious consequences. Then you will stay out of trouble and embarrassment.
Second, it is observed that when you do not see someone whom you write or speak to face to face, you tend to be very careless about what you say. Thus, you have the boldness to say nasty words to a person, especially a stranger, over the phone, through “SMS” or email but you will be more restrained when you see him face to face. Such was also the case here where one of the two who posted a defamatory remark did so under a pseudonym.
The Bible explains why: “Anyone who does evil hates the light and will not come into the light for fear that their deeds will be exposed” (John 3:20). This explains why some people use pseudonyms (of course, there are also many who use pseudonyms for good reasons): to hide themselves. This also means that when they can say or do things under the cloak of darkness, they become bolder even to the extent of saying things that are false or hurtful.
They thought that they would not be called to substantiate what they said. But that is not true because the world is round, that is, you may meet that person you defamed in person one day. Word gets around. Never think that what you say will never be heard by the person whom you gossiped about.
Thus, the Bible exhorts us to “walk in the light” (1 John 1:7). Make a conscious effort that when you say something about someone, treat it as if that person is around. If you cannot say something with that person being present, as a general rule, do not say it because he might hear it one day.
With today’s modern communication facilities, it has become easier to say, write things and get into trouble because the Bible says that “When words are many, transgression is not lacking” (Prov 10:19). Thus, avoid saying things that have serious consequences when you are angry or rushing for time. Think and wait before you write or say something. Then you will stay out of trouble and be a happier person.