Our Lord uses brethren in the church to uphold one another and watch over one another in love. Should we, however, choose to shut ourselves off, forbidding others to know you better, or be disinterested in building deeper relationshipd with one another, if we are unwilling to spend time in this regard, it will be difficult for us to really receive the care and help that God administers through brethren in church.
Cell groups and fellowship groups in church are here to provide a fertile ground for relationships amongst brethren to blossom. Through our weekly Sunday School meeting and additional regular meet-ups, we learn more about one another as we share our thoughts, struggles, and emotions. With this, we can then extend our care to each other in deeper and more practical ways. As we give, we also receive God’s love. Of course, conflicts are unavoidable when we get close to each other because we are all sinners. But “as iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another” (Proverbs 27:17). With God’s love that empowers us to forgive, love, and edify one another, I am sure that cell groups or fellowships will be a blessing to you. At the beginning of the year, I would like to encourage you to get more involved in a cell group or a fellowship. First, please join Sunday’s Bible Study regularly. Always take note of other meetings and avail yourself for them. During the meetings, be ready to share your life with one another. Care for others more proactively. More importantly, we should continue our interactions beyond cell group or fellowship meetings. Keep in touch with one another through phone calls, messages, or over a meal. With a closer relationship, our care for each other will naturally become better.
Do you have good friend in church, a person whom you can share your thoughts, joy, aspirations and all things in life, a person who can run along with you in your faith journey? It is time for you to seek and build such friendships, if you had not done so. This year, in a cell group or fellowship, we want to help you to have such a spiritual buddy and grow together in Christ. “How good and pleasant it is when God’s people live together in unity! … For there the Lord bestows his blessing, even life forevermore” (Psalm 133).